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The Truth about the leaving mortal coil of Swami Vivekanda: Stop propagating nonsense against him!

August 1, 2017

The Truth about the leaving mortal coil of Swami Vivekanda: Stop propagating nonsense against him!

Did Vivekanda die for controlling sex- Rekha Padmanabhan

Propaganda against Swami Vivekananda: July 4th happened to be the “Sraddhanjali Day” of Swami Vivekananda, but, this year 2017, I missed it, because of preoccupation with personal problems and conferences.  The Christian propaganda was there, ever since, he dominated the West with his Vedantic influence. That propaganda continues even today by the Christian missionaries and anti-Hindu propagandists with their fantastic stories spun and spread from time to time. I wanted to prepare a note on his “departure from this world,” as some people started misinterpreting his end with their own imaginative suggestions, concocted suppositions and ill-motivated ideas, turning into hypotheses. Ironically, some people have started doing under the guise of “motivational speaker” and so on[1]. Some other give their own of explanation[2]. Thus, I have been compelled to prepare this note hurriedly with the materials available in the internet.

If anybody attacks me, simply ignore his existence-Swami Vivekananda

Swami Vivekananda stood against all odds: Swami Vivekananda suffered heavily due to his restriction of food and ill-health. Slowly, he agreed to wear the warm cloths to protect himself from the climate in USA and European counties. Of course, writers too, used contribute their mite in 20th and 21st centuries with their “scientific” and “rational” interpretations. Thus, the  story Hindustan Times goes in this way: “In a life-span of only 39 years, Swami Vivekananda, who spread the message of India’s spiritual heritage across the world, battled several health problems all along and no less than 31 diseases and ailments[3]. ‘The Monk as Man’ by renowned Bengali writer Shankar lists insomnia, liver and kidney diseases, malaria, migraine, diabetes and heart ailments as some of the 31 health problems that the Swami faced in the course of his life[4]. Shankar describes Swami Vivekananda’s health problems using a Sanskrit quote ‘shariram byadhimandiram’ — the body is the temple of diseases”. How he suffered (from dysentery and fever) during the Paris “World Conference of Religion” was also well known. Yet, he fought battle, many times singularly.

Swami Vivekananda foresees about his health

‘Better to play football than read the Gita’: Yes, Swamiji wanted Indian youth to be assertive and strong to fight, but, the “Hindustan Times” goes to say, “Ironically, Vivekananda used to emphasise greatly on physical strength and is known for the shocking statement ‘Better to play football than read the Gita’. One of the perennial problems that Vivekananda lived with was chronic insomnia and in a letter to Shashi Bhushan Ghosh dated May 29, 1897, he confided “I never in my life could sleep as soon as I got into bed.” The previous year, Vivekananda seemed to have written to his ‘dhira mata’ (Sara Bull) from New York complaining about his lack of sleep. “My health has nearly broken down. I have not slept even one night soundly in New York since I came … I wish I could go to the bottom of the sea and have a good, long sleep.” He knew about his body and mind the strength of them. Therefore, now one need not comment that, “Ironically, Vivekananda used to emphasise greatly on physical strength and is known for the shocking statement ‘Better to play football than read the Gita’, as one has to understand the meaning. He did not say that you should not read Gita, but, play football!

Swami Vivekananda knew when he would die

Swamiji was suffering from diabetes: It is also known that Vivekananda used to suffer from diabetes like his father and at that time suitable drugs were unavailable. Shankar writes that Vivekananda had tried different modes of treatment ranging from allopathic, homoeopathic to ayurvedic and had also taken advice from all kinds of quasi-medical experts from various countries. He narrates that in the summer of 1887, Vivekananda (whose real name was Narendranath Dutta) had fallen very ill due to overstrain and lack of food. During this period, he also suffered from gallstones, and acute diarrhoea. Later, during the same summer, he came down with typhoid and problems in the urinary tract. “Narendranath’s abdominal pains were a source of great anxiety,” Shankar says. Shankar wonderfully chronicles the various medical problems Swami Vivekananda faced during his stint as a wandering monk in the country and across the world, and why he cut short his journey in Cairo, Egypt, to return to India. It was to French operatic soprano Rosa Emma Calvet that Vivekandanda had declared in Egypt that he would die on July 4, 1902. “Swami Vivekananda’s eyes filled with tears. He said he wanted to return to his country to die, to be with his gurubhais,” Shankar wrote. The fateful evening of July 4, 1902, Vivekananda passed away in Belur following a third heart attack, completing 39 years, five months and 24 days.

Narasingha Prosad Sil, Swami Vivekananda-A Reassessment, Selingrove- Susquehana University Press, USA, p.141.

The rupture of a blood vessel in his brain was reported as a possible cause of death[5]: There is no mystery surrounding the fact that Swami Vivekananda died in the year 1902. But not all of us know the real reason(s) behind his demise. Let’s explore the various theories related to Swami Vivekanda’s death as well as some unknown aspects of his life…Swami Vivekananda was born on 12 January 1863. On 4 July 1902 (the day of his death) Vivekananda awoke early, went to the chapel at Belur Math and meditated for three hours. He taught Shukla-Yajur-Veda, Sanskrit grammar and the philosophy of yoga to pupils. Later, along with several colleagues, he planned Vedic college in the Ramakrishna Math. It is stated that on the day of his sad demise, in the evening, around 7 p.m, Vivekananda went to his room, asking not to be disturbed. He died the same night at 9:10 p.m. while meditating. According to his disciples, Vivekananda attained Mahasamadhi; the rupture of a blood vessel in his brain was reported as a possible cause of death. His disciples believed that the rupture was due to his brahmarandhra (an opening in the crown of his head) being pierced when he attained Mahasamadhi[6]. Vivekananda fulfilled his prophecy that he would not live for forty years. He was cremated on a sandalwood funeral pyre on the bank of the Ganges in Belur, opposite where Ramakrishna was cremated sixteen years earlier. Swami Vivekananda, left his physical body on July 4th, 1902, when he was just 39 years old. Many people have wondered – what caused an evolved soul like Swami Vivekananda to die at such a young age? Aren’t yogi’s able to extend their own life-span and live for very long periods of time? As this was written in 2015, obviously, it was written based on “cardiac arrest ” hypothesis floated .

Narasingha Prosad Sil, Swami Vivekananda-A Reassessment, Selingrove- Susquehana University Press, USA, p.141-2

How Swamiji predicted his death!: Swami Vivekananda wrote this in a letter to Sister Nivedita in March 1900, as noted by Anshul Chaturvedi, in his blog. In my fraying, massively underlined and marked copy of Letters Of Swami Vivekananda, I’d circled the words “I know the time and place” the very first time I read and pondered over it, over a decade back, and made a small note against it: ‘of death, obviously.’ I could find no other explanation. It was, after all, just over two years after writing that letter that Vivekanda died, on July 4, 1902, preceded by detailed study of the almanac in the preceding days, the specific pointing out of the spot of his cremation three days before his demise, and instructions to brother-disciples on the future of the Ramakrishna Math on the day itself[7]. Earlier in that year, Romain Rolland has noted that Vivekananda began to decline to express his opinion on the questions of the day with the response, “I can no more enter into outside affairs; I am already on the way.” The man who had said “I shall not live to be forty years old” and moved on at 39 was clearly no stranger to his physical end and approached it with a sense of anticipation, if not familiarity[8].

Swami Vivekananda knew about his death- letter to Nivedita

Sex stories floated picked up Kundalini, yoga and so on: Our people do not want read carefully or going into facts by reading at least the “Complete Works of Swami Vivekananda”. According to his disciples, “Vivekananda attained Mahasamadhi; the rupture of a blood vessel in his brain was reported as a possible cause of death. His disciples believed that the rupture was due to his brahmarandhra (an opening in the crown of his head) being pierced when he attained Mahasamadhi”. But, the fact is Swamiji opposed the “Tantric” practices, particularly, involving Vamachara. “This form of practice must never even be mentioned in the Math. Ruin shall seize the wicked man, both here and hereafter, who would introduce vile Vamachara into His fold”- thus, Swami Vivekananda warned the members of Alambazar Math, 27 April 1896. But, now, people without any sense write, he died because he could not control sex, masturbate………………….and so on.

Narasingha Prosad Sil, Swami Vivekananda- on sex, marriage

Swamiji had been very clear about it: Hence the swami makes it clear that left-hand Tantra is absolutely forbidden for the monks of the Ramakrishna mission; indeed, they are explicitly warned not even to speak of such horrible rites, on threat of expulsion from the order[9]: “The Vamachara form of practice . . . should on no account be practised at the Math. Anyone demuring to this must step out of this Order. This form of practice must never even be mentioned in the Math. Ruin shall seize the wicked man, both here and hereafter, who would introduce vile Vamachara into His fold”. Only by purging this demoralizing parasite can India recover its virile, masculine power: “Just look to your own province and see how this Vamachara (immoral practices) of the Tantras has entered into your very marrow. Even modern Vaishnavism . . . is saturated with Vamachara! We must stem the tide of this Vamachara which is contrary to the spirit of the Vedas[10].

Kundalini-Swami Vivekananda

Swamiji pointed out how historically, the practices were degenerated: Swamiji explained, “Give up this filthy Vamachara that is killing your country…. When I  see how much the Vamachara has entered into our society, I find it a most disgraceful place with all its boast of culture. These Vamachara secrets are honeycombing our society in Bengal. . . . The Bengali Shastras are the Vamachara shastras. They are published by the cartload and you poison the minds of your children with them. . . . Fathers of Calcutta, do you not feel ashamed that such horrible stuff as these Vamachara Tantras . . . should be put into the hands of your boys and girls, and their minds poisoned, and that they should be brought up with the idea that these are the Shastras of the Hindus? If you are ashamed, take them away from your children and let them read the true Shastras, the Vedas, the Gita and the Upanishads[11]. The original spirit essentially valid Hindu scriptures that were only later corrupted by degenerate Buddhism and the obscene rites of the left-hand (Vàmàcàra) path: “I denounced only the present corrupted form of Vamachara of the Tantras. I did not denounce the Mother worship of the Tantras. . . . The purport of the Tantras is to worship women in a spirit of Divinity. During the downfall of Buddhism, the Vamachara became very much corrupted, and that corrupted form obtains to the present. . . . I denounced only these corrupt…practices”[12].

Kundalini-Swami Vivekananda warns against Vamachara

Leave Swami Vivekananda: Nowadays, it has become a fashion to pretend that all could be solved, just by talking. Some have started claiming that “Do not take medicine…..You do this, you can be free from all diseases”.  Yet another claim, “I solve all your personal, family ……problems, just by talking”, that is, just listen to what I talk, that is enough! Here, they need not resort to denigrate others for theor promotion. For “sex” control etc., Swami Vivenananda need not be dragged into. Therefore, Indians on any capacity or pretext need not misinterpret Swami Vivekananda, without reading him. One should at least read the “Complete works”, before commenting or talking about Swami Vivekananda. For one’s propagation of name, fame or business, he need not be brought to trivial issues.

© Vedaprakash

01-08-2017

The man who predicted his death and died accordingly

[1]I have gone through the audio carefully listening to her [Rekha Padmanabhan] speech:  https://www.facebook.com/rekha.padmanaban.5/videos/1777911698903713/; https://youtu.be/2KJmedH4ZhU; https://youtu.be/5ve0j9AIQ_I

[2] Why Did Swami Vivekananda Die So Young?, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5ve0j9AIQ_I. Obviously, Rekha Padmanabhan has used this without acknowledging the source.

[3] The Hindustan times, Swami Vivekananda suffered from 31 ailments , Updated: Jan 06, 2013 10:49 IST.

[4] http://www.hindustantimes.com/kolkata/swami-vivekananda-suffered-from-31-ailments/story-AzNd0vIynJOGkO5MJzW9AK.html

[5] Speaking Tree, The unknown reason behind the death of Swami Vivekananda, PRATEEK PATHAK, MAR 06, 2015 10:16PM

[6] http://www.speakingtree.in/allslides/how-swami-vivekananda-died/257218

[7] Anshul Chaturvedi, Why the death of Vivekananda defines his life, July 11, 2012, 2:08 PM IST.

[8] http://blogs.timesofindia.indiatimes.com/clicklit/why-the-death-of-vivekananda-defines-his-life/

[9] Swami Vivekananda, Complete Works, vol. 7, p.494.

[10] Swami Vivekananda, Complete Works, vol. 7, p. 174

[11]  Swami Vivekananda, Complete Works, vol. 3, p. 340.

[12]  Swami Vivekananda, Complete Works, vol. 7, pp. 215–16

Online sexual grooming, luring girls with modus operandi, cyber sexual crimes: Should be taken serious and monitored!

May 18, 2017

Online sexual grooming, luring girls with modus operandi, cyber sexual crimes: Should be taken serious and monitored!

Internet grooming

Ibrahim posing as “Siva” developed Fracebook friendship with a 13-year school girl: Accepting what seemed like an innocuous Facebook friend request ended up in a nightmare for a a 13-year-old girl from Tirupur, as the friendly stranger turned out to be a sexual predator, facebook friend for just few months, who ensnared the young teen and raped her. A 22-year-old man and a lodge manager were arrested on 01-05-2017 Monday on charges of raping a 13-year-old 8th standard schoolgirl. The man, who befriended the girl from Tirupur on Facebook, took her to Puducherry, raped her and abandoned her in a lodge. Later, the lodge manager also raped her. The arrested persons were identified as S Ibrahim, 22, of Pichampalayampudur in Tirupur and E Prabhakaran, 29, of Puducherry[1]. Police said Ibrahim was working in a textile unit in Tirupur and Prabhakaran had taken a lodge on lease more than six months ago[2].

Internet sexual grooming

The girl eloped with Ibrahim as he talked so sweetly: Lured by the 21-year-old youth’s sweet-talk, the teenager ran away with him to Chennai and then to Puducherry, where she was sexually abused for two days[3]. It is ridiculous that that the 13-year girl could be so bold enough to elope with a stranger from Tirupr to Chennai to Puducherry and accepted to stay in lodge. The girl’s harrowing tale came to light on April 29, 2017 when she reached Tirupur two days after she went missing and narrated her ordeal to her parents[4]. On April 27, the girl’s parents lodged a complaint with the Tirupur North police claiming their 13-year-old daughter had gone missing. But, what the parents were doing about her activities with phone, facebook friendship, strange behaviour and other activities. They must have watched her. Even as the sleuths were trying to trace her whereabouts, she returned on her own two days later. What the girl had to tell about the two days away from home swung the city police into action, leading to the arrest of a 21-year-old youth from Chennai and a 27-year-old man from Puducherry. Police said the girl became friends with Siva (21) on Facebook recently. Over time, Siva talked her into eloping with him and on April 27, he reached Tirupur. The girl gave her family members the slip and eloped with Siva to Chennai. After a brief stay there, Siva took her to a lodge in neighbouring Puducherry, where he allegedly raped her for two days. Ironically, though TOI mentions his name as Ibrahim, Indian Express does not, perhaps on the principles of “Secular journalism”!

Internet sexual grooming- love jihad too.jpg

The lover sold her gold chain and vanished: Later, Siva sold her gold chain weighing one sovereign, gave her the return fare to Tirupur and vanished. Really, it is interesting and intriguing to note as to how the girl could giv her chain also to the crook after all these happenings. Ibrahm should be interrogated thoroughly and his modus operandi should be ex;posed, so that the girls could be safe. Finding the girl all alone, lodge owner Prabakaran (27) befriended the girl under the guise of helping her reach Tirupur. After realising what had happened, Prabakaran too allegedly sexually abused her[5]. The girl managed to escape from the lodge and reach Tirupur with the money Siva had left her. After hearing her tale, a team of sleuths traced Siva to Chennai and arrested him on 01-05-2017 (Monday) on charges of kidnapping and raping a minor girl[6]. Another team nabbed Prabakaran from his lodge in Puducherry. Both the accused have been booked under various sections of the Indian Penal Code and the Protection of Children from Sexual Offences Act (POCSO). After all these happenings, the media started disciurse on “online sexual grooming” and so on!

Be smart in internet-1.jpg

Online sexual grooming – definition and so on![7]: Child grooming is generally understood as the practice of befriending and forming an emotional bond with a child by a person with the objective of sexual abuse. According to the Oxford English Dictionary, the word ‘grooming’ was first used in connection with a paedophile in a 1985 story by Chicago Tribune which stated, “These ‘friendly molesters’ become acquainted with their targeted victim, gaining their trust while secretly grooming the child as a sexual partner.” Child grooming incidents have increased with the advent of the internet, where such incidents are increasingly taking place online, through public chatrooms and social media. In India too, such instances have been reported in the past[8].

  1. Last year, two teenagers were arrested in Kolkata for kidnapping and rape of a 15-year-old girl whom they had befriended on Facebook.
  2. Another instance of online grooming was reported in December 2016 where a teenage girl was raped by a Facebook friend in Mumbai.
  3. More recently, in January 2017, a minor girl in Cuttack alleged rape by a boy whom she had met through a social networking site.

With the proliferation of smartphone users in India, child grooming incidents can only be expected to rise in future.

Be smart in internet-2

Tulir’s discourse on Online sexual grooming[9]: As usual after some days, the analysis comes  in this way: “This is a classic case of sexual grooming,” says Vidya Reddy, of Tulir, Centre for Prevention and Healing of Child Sexual Abuse. “Abusers study a situation carefully to understand what a child’s Achilles heel is and then exploit the situation. Now, with almost every child having accesses to technology and internet in the form of a laptop or phone, these criminals have found new platforms to target children,” she adds. What Vidya explains is called online sexual grooming, a worldwide phenomenon, that has spread along with the speed and easy access to the internet. According to UNICEF, it can be defined as preparing a child or adult for sexual abuse, exploitation or ideological manipulation. A report released by the organisation in 2014 states that the surge in mobile and internet usage in India had brought 400 million people online. Of this, seven percent of internet users in the country are reportedly children. “Phones are now an extension of our hands and it has completely changed the way crime is committed and presented,” Vidya notes. Even a report of the Parliamentary Committee on Information Technology in 2014 recognized the threat posed to children by predatory paedophiles online. It emphasises how these predators “conceal their true identity whilst using the internet to ‘groom’ potential victims for sexual purposes.”

From home to horror[10]: The girl, Meena [name changed] too was unaware about the identity of the person she was chatting with. In fact, an officer told The News Minute, that it was only when Ibrahim called her on the phone that she even realised she had compromised all her data to an unknown man. But Ibrahim, as the police put it, was too smart for the girl. “He spoke to her very nicely and formed an emotional connect before she even realised the dangers of the situation,” a police officer told The News Minute. “He was just somebody who did odd jobs for a living but his real life was on Facebook. He has close to 5000 friends and they are all young girls,” she admits.

What parents and others should do?: As the issue has bee n so simple and as well as complicated in modern times, the following are suggested,  though, the modern ones might object on the grounds of “moral-policing” and so on:

  1. In schoools, moral education classes should be introduced naking them understand, realize and appreciate the moral values of family, parents, relations, respect to elders and connected issues.
  2. Of course, parents and elders should set example to their children, boys and girls and others.
  3. The studying teenage boys and girls should concentrate in studies and not in love, love-making, sex related topics.
  4. The cinema, TV, print and electronic media and connected persons should have some sort of “Social respinsibility” in their presentation of ads, news, serials etc.
  5. They should avoid negative suggestion, instread, present wth positive asppects giving good examples.
  6. Definitely, parents should watch the activities of their children, boys and girls carefully.
  7. Their extra-cautious activities should be monitored with the time-spending, money-requirement and spening, goingout on various pretexts etc.
  8. That teens from slums could kidnap and enjoy life with rich girls, autowalas, coolies and others also could join sucg fray to get girls just by wearing jeans, riding a bike, and such other iditic myths should not be promoted.
  9. The cine songs, depiction etc, should have some decency and decorum, instead of portraying the dancing actresses as whores, or they would go with anybody and indulge in sex immediately.
  10. The law enforcing auhtorities can monitor all these activities.

© Vedaprakash

18-05-2017

[1] Times of India, Girl raped by Facebook ‘friend’, lodge manager in Puducherry, TNN | Updated: May 3, 2017, 06.50 AM IST

[2] http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/coimbatore/girl-raped-by-facebook-friend-lodge-manager-in-puducherry/articleshow/58487399.cms

[3] Onmanorama, Minor girl elopes with FB friend, only to be abused by him, Wednesday 03 May 2017 08:54 PM IST, byOur Correspondent.

http://english.manoramaonline.com/news/nation/2017/05/03/chennai-girl-elopes-with-fb-friend-abused.html

[4] http://english.manoramaonline.com/news/nation/2017/05/03/chennai-girl-elopes-with-fb-friend-abused.html

[5] Indian Express, Facebook friend rapes 13-year-old after luring her from Tirupur to Chennai,

By Vignesh A, Express News Service, Published: 02nd May 2017 09:58 PM, Last Updated: 02nd May 2017 09:58 PM.

[6] http://www.newindianexpress.com/states/tamil-nadu/2017/may/02/facebook-friend-rapes-13-year-old-after-luring-her-from-tirupur-to-chennai-1600249.html

[7] Firstpost, Child grooming: India must take measures to protect children from online sexual abuses, Devika Agarwal, May, 11 2017 21:59:53 IST

[8] http://www.firstpost.com/india/child-grooming-india-must-take-measures-to-protect-children-from-online-sexual-abuse-3438528.html

[9] TheNewsMinute, A 13-year-old’s rape in TN highlights the major threat online sexual groomih poses to children, Priyanka Thirumurthy, Saturday, May 06, 2017 – 11:45

[10] http://www.thenewsminute.com/article/13-year-old-s-rape-tn-highlights-major-threat-online-sexual-grooming-poses-children-61591