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A Woman / female pedophile in India: Perverted, indecent and extreme sexual harassment spoiling the Indian society

March 25, 2019

 A Woman / female pedophile in India: Perverted, indecent and extreme sexual harassment spoiling the Indian society

Teacher arrested for child pornography IE

A woman / lady pedophile – New and shocking trend in India: So far, in India, the pedophile crimes have been associated with the foreign sex tourists, US-UK pedophiles, priests of Christian missionaries and others. All of them have been males only. But, now, a female / woman pedophile is found sexually harassing and assaulting school boys in Tamil Nadu. Recently, there have several Supreme Court judgments that have been shocking and disturbing many, as they have been about free sex, women can have sex with others, if she gives consent and so on. However, it is not known as tom whether they have thought of the entire nation, Indian society with the inherent factors of culture, tradition, heritage and civilization. With changing external appearances and morphological variance, neo-ideologists could question everything, yet, the basics cannot be  questioned, as they cannot think of their fathers and mothers having sex with others, applying their own principles of liberalism, Utopian sex and egalitarian porn-type rations. Therefore, when it starts happening in India, one has to be careful.

Teacher arrested for child pornography -chennai times

Female teacher arrested for molesting minor boys: The accused teacher was arrested on 21-03-2019 [Thursday] for the charges sexual harassment and allegedly used her students for pornographic purposes sexual harassment and allegedly used her students for pornographic purposes based on a complaint given[1]. The Police in Tamil Nadu arrested a 30-year-old government school teacher U. Nithya, from Arani town in Tiruvannamalai on Wednesday on charges of molesting two young boys[2]. Nithya was married to Umesh Kumar, and the couple was residing at Kamaraj Nagar in Arni of Tiruvannamalai district. Nithya, who was working as an English teacher at Paiyur government high school, had sexually harassed her students to be intimate with them and used them for pornographic purposes. She, on the pretext of taking tuition classes, had gone to a student house and was in intimate relationships[3]. During her visits, she allegedly assaulted the students and recorded videos of her acts.

Perverted teacher Nithya and Umeshkumar

Husband has been the complainant: Surprisingly, the complaint in this regard was made by no other than the accused’s own husband who approached local law enforcement officers and lodged a case against his wife[4]. Ironically and incidentally, after observing and confirming her sex activities, he warned her, but, she was not heeding, leading to arguments etc. At one stage, he started living separately. In his complaint, the husband alleged that he discovered inappropriate pictures of his wife with some children, he believed were her students, in December of last year 2017. Based on his disclosure to the Collector, the District Social Welfare Department was instructed to probe the allegations by the Collector.

Perverted teacher Nithya -30

Complaint filed registered and she has been arrested: Following a preliminary investigation, a complaint was officially registered with the District Child Protection Unit (DCPU) in January of this year. The accused has been booked under sections Section 10 (aggravated sexual assault) and Section 14 (punishment for using child for pornographic purposes) of Protection of Children from Sexual Offences (POCSO) Act. “He confronted her and it led to a major fight between the couple,” say police. “Despite her husband’s warnings, Nitya was stubborn and continued her physical relationship with the minor, following which he filed a petition with the District Collector’s office.” Based on instructions from the Collector, the Tiruvannamalai District Child Protection Unit conducted an inquiry. The suspect is said to have confessed to the crime. She was arrested by Arni all-women police station officials on 21-03-2019 [Thursday].

Perverted teacher arrested

She was harassing the students since 2015: However, shocking developments have come to light concerning the accused’s behaviour and the Tamil Nadu government’s approach towards handling cases of sexual misconduct by teachers of state-run schools[5]. Going by reports, the accused is a resident of Kamaraj Nagar in Arni town and has been teaching English at government schools in the district since 2014[6]. After she was accused of molesting minor boys at the school she was previously employed at, the teacher was transferred to the school where she is currently teaching without any scrutiny or investigation into allegations against her. A police official familiar with the investigation told “The News Minute” that the female teacher has been accused of molesting young boys aged between 15 and 17. She captured intimate pictures of herself with the students, said the official adding that she is believed to have sexually abused several minor boys between 2015 and 2017.

Female pedophile psyche

Parents of the affected boys not willing to file complaint: An investigation into the matter is currently underway and more details in this regard are awaited. Nitya’s husband says he tried to lodge a police complaint last year, but was turned down by cops saying only DCPO or victim’s parents could do so[7].  In other words, the parents of the affected boys did not want the teacher to be booked, as such action might reveal the details of their sons and wards leading to complications. However, POCSO Act allows anyone to file a complaint. He then petitioned the Collector who asked DCPU to investigate[8]. Speaking to TNM, Arani’s All Women’s Police Inspector SB Mythili says[9], “Over a period of three years, that is, from 2015 to 2017, she has sexually abused a few of her students between age groups of 15 and 17 at school as well as at her tuition classes, capturing intimate photos with them on her phone. So far, we have evidence of her harassing two boys.” Following the incident, Nithya has since been removed from her posting by District Primary Education Officer V Jayakumar. Justice Devanathan of Fast Track Mahila Court, Thiruvannamalai, sentenced her to be lodged at Velur Central Women’s Jail till April 4 until further investigations are complete[10].

Female pedophile psyche- happens in India-2

How to  prevent such perverted, indecent and illegal sexual acts?: Stray cases had been reported about teachers having love relationships with students lesser than their age and even getting married. But, here, the woman has been already married with two children. Therefore, there could not be any problem after marriage and with the  children born. Yet, she has been drawn to such perverted sex, pornography and other activities, her corrupt, decayed and ruined mindset is revealed. Extreme sexual aberration, infatuated obsessed for sex and perverted relationship. Tat such type of polyandry existing among the males have been noted, but, among the women, it has been rare. However, as since it is reported, the Indian society has to be careful.

Female pedophile psyche- happens in India-3

Internet, cellphone and connected electronic sex playing havoc: Definitely internet, computer, cellphone and such devices have been providing access to sex and pornographic sited knowingly and unknowingly. If a serious searcher, researcher and enthusiast  searching for certain serious issues and subjects, some figures could pop-ups to divert them.  So by any temptation, one should not click. Though, government has been tying to stop such pornography, contents, pictures etc., private or foreign servers that have local applications might spread targeting weak minds. Therefore, one should have self-imposed discipline in avoiding and not seeing such sites.

Female pedophile psyche- happens in India

Question of psyche, psychology and counseling: No doubt the question of psyche is involved, but, there have been negative issues and subjects that could be known and forgotten. Here, there is no such “ethical hacking” and all, as no negative principle would work here. In modern context, “Counselling” implies personal information going to third person and he / she might always prone to exploit the so-called “patients” coming to her / him. Therefore, it should be applied through parents, female family members to the affected female members and male family members to the affected males., so that the secrecy would be kept safely. The victims could also ready to come out and co-operate with them, the moment, they understand that they would help them, support them and take care of them.

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24-03-2019

Perverted teacher Nithya -30-arrested

[1] Edex Live, TN teacher arrested for child pornography and sexual assault on students after husband complains to Collector, Published: 21st March 2019 .

[2] https://www.edexlive.com/news/2019/mar/21/tn-teacher-arrested-for-child-pornography-and-sexual-assault-on-students-after-husband-complains-to-5576.html

[3] Mirror Now, Female government school teacher arrested on husband’s complaint for molesting minor students, Updated Mar 23, 2019 | 13:32 IST |

[4] https://www.timesnownews.com/mirror-now/crime/article/tamil-nadu-tiruvannamalai-arani-government-school-female-teacher-sexual-molestation-assault-pocso-act/387406

[5] Chennai Times. Nithya, English Teacher, Arrested For Sexually Harassing Teen Students !! TAMILNADU SHOCKER !!, March 22,2019.

[6] http://chennaimemes.in/nithya-english-teacher-arrested-for-sexually-harassing-teen-students-tamilnadu-shocker/

[7] Indian Express, TN government school teacher arrested for sexually assaulting her minor student, recording act , Published: 22nd March 2019 06:11 AM | Last Updated: 22nd March 2019 09:10 AM.

[8] http://www.newindianexpress.com/states/tamil-nadu/2019/mar/22/govt-school-teacher-arrested-for-sexually-assaulting-her-minor-student-recording-act-1954199.html

[9]  TheNewsMinute, TN teacher held for sexually harassing students, husband turns in evidence, Anjana Shekar, Friday, March 22, 2019 – 11:29.

[10] https://www.thenewsminute.com/article/tn-teacher-held-sexually-harassing-students-after-husband-turns-evidence-98756

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Another foreign pedophile teacher has prowled upon Indian children on the eve of “Teachers’s Day”- this time targets have been the blind! (2)

September 9, 2017

Another foreign pedophile teacher has prowled upon Indian children on the eve of “Teachers’s Day”- this time targets have been the blind! (2)

Gloucestersgire - local paper reportingWard arrest 06-09-2017

Delhi cops doubt British pedophile can be a part of an international racket dealing in child porn[1]: Delhi police investigating the sexual assault against a British national, has found that accused Murray Denis Ward (54) had also targeted other kids outside the blind school. During investigation, cops have found that he uploaded some videos on internet and also got few such videos from other internet users. Cops are alsodoubting that the pedophile foreigner can be a part of some international gang involved in child porn. Sleuths are also doubting that Ward targeted kids in Burma where he resided for two years due to official work[2]. His chat shows that he not only was in touch with kids from the blind school but also in touch with other kids of different area. He used to initiate conversation by asking whether they have any close friends and their views about sex,” a police official investigating the case told The New Indian Express. “As we have found various clips and conversation with other internet users, exchange of videos and photos on WhatsApp, we are also probing whether he was a part of some international racket or not who deals in child porn on the internet,” official added. Cops are claiming that his phone has photos and video since November 2016 after he returned from Burma. He had gone to Burma for two years on some project from office. While Indian Express has been giving these extra details, others have been repetitive of what the PTI have brought out.

Murray Dennis Ward - modus operandi-Sept.2017

Why Chastity consciousness is not there in the pedophile issue?: None has noted that any TV channel has ever discussed the pedophile crime during their debates. The vernacular TV channels may not know the issue at all or knowing suppressing the facts. As usual, the media, human rights activities, child rights saviors, the opinion making and decision taking elites and authorities, and whole range of protesters, activists and others have been silent on this issue as usual. While Gauri and Anita have been sensational in Bangalore and Chennai, none bothered to recognize them among the unfortunate defiled and raped 34. Of late, the mob psychology of the protesters has been intriguing and strange, as they become excitingly proactive, highly charged and exceedingly emotional for some issues, whereas, they virtually ignore other very important, burning and more affecting issues, problems and malices. Ironically, pedophile has been neglected and ignored by most of all.

Murray Dennis Ward, how he gained confidence-Sept.2017

Delhi High Court directs AAP Government to ensure safety of visually impaired minors (08-09-2017)[3]: The Delhi High Court today asked the AAP government to ensure safety of children, some of whom were allegedly sexually assaulted by a British national at the National Association for the Blind (NAB) here. A bench of Acting Chief Justice Gita Mittal and Justice C Hari Shankar also issued notice to the Delhi government and the police station concerned and sought status report on the issue by September 12, 2017. The bench asked the Delhi State Legal Services Authority (DSLSA) member secretary to immediately look into the matter and place a report before the court regarding disbursement of compensation to victims of the offence[4]. DLSA Secretary, if required, shall call for inspection of the school and interact with the children, it added. The bench further directed that the concerned authorities shall “ensure that every step is taken for welfare, security and safety of children”. The court’s direction came on a social worker Prashant Kumar’s PIL highlighting the absence of due care and framework during appointment of personnel and volunteers at the special home for visually-impaired minor inmates in south Delhi.

Murray Dennis Ward - modus operandi-Sept.2017-2

PIL sought a multi- disciplinary SIT probe into the affair: Advocate Ajay Verma, appearing for Mr Kumar, alleged that if there would have been a proper mechanism, the incident of sexual offence that has occurred recently at NAB, could have been prevented. 54-year-old Murray Dennis Ward was arrested and remanded to judicial custody in a case of alleged sexual assault on three visually-impaired minor inmates of the special home. The police has told the trial court that Ward had been associated with the NAB as a regular donor for almost nine years and was a frequent visitor to the institute. He was arrested for allegedly inappropriately touching three NAB inmates on September 2, police has said. Ward, a native of Gloucestershire in the United Kingdom, had been working with Sterlite Technology Limited in Gurugram till April. Seeking to prevent such incidents in future, the plea has sought court-monitored investigation by constituting a multi- disciplinary SIT to actively monitor the probe in this case. It said that there should be time bound investigation to ensure impartiality. The plea filed by advocate Katyayini also sought protection for witness in the case and said the court should issue direction to formulate regulation for volunteers and donors who visit the special schools.

Pedophile issue has to be discussed

How the pedophiles should be handled?: One out of every two children in India is sexually abused, most never report it, 52% of the cases are boys, implying 48% are girls. In other words, pedophiles have been raping teenage girls also. Rape of teenage girls up to 18 cannot be ignored by dubbing as “child abuse”. Psychologists dubbing such practices as “grooming” in Indian context try to cover all domestic, educational, social and religious interactions[5]. Present-day writers and columnists in trying to justify that such pedophile tendencies have been existing in Indian society, try to draw such parallels and vulgarize normal relationships to fit into some hypotheses and theories[6]. All such actions could not be brought under generalized psychological grouping behaviour.

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If all such behaviour of parents are restricted to “Oedipus complex”, then, none is spared. Oedipus complex in psychoanalytic theory, is an assumed desire for sexual involvement with the parent of the opposite sex and a concomitant sense of rivalry with the parent of the same sex; a crucial stage in the normal developmental process. When Sigmund Freud introduced the concept in his Interpretation of Dreams (1899), it has become famous in western societies. If such hypotheses and theories haunt all sons and daughters, then, all parents would be sexploiters. Therefore, the psychologists and socilogists should come to reality to analyse as to why the foreign pedophiles mostly prowl upon Indian teens, why and orphanages supply victims knowingly, how the predators and perptrators work together and such other related issues should be taken into account. Now, in the western context, pedophilia is considered as “disease” as cold and fever, implying, pedophiles can rape gteenage girls and get away with that declaring that the rapists are patients with disease. Or after be ing caught, he can get admitted in hospital for treatment. Therefore, such interpretation should not be allowed in Indian context and the sex criminals should be properly booked, adjudicated and punished.

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08-09-2017.

Odephus complex
[1] Indian Express, Delhi cops doubt British pedophile can be a part of an international racket dealing in child porn, By Ankur Sharma  |  Express News Service, Published: 07th September 2017 12:52 AM, Last Updated: 07th September 2017 12:52 AM.

[2] http://www.newindianexpress.com/cities/delhi/2017/sep/07/delhi-cops-doubt-british-pedophile-can-be-a-part-of-an-international-racket-dealing-in-child-porn-1653440.html

[3] NDTV, High court asks AAP Government to ensure safety to visually impaired minors, Press Trust of India | Updated: September 08, 2017 22:50 IST.

[4] http://www.ndtv.com/delhi-news/delhi-high-court-asks-aap-government-to-ensure-safety-of-visually-impaired-minors-1747954

[5] Indian Express, The deafening silence of child abuse, Written by Neha Hiranandani | Published:August 17, 2016 11:43 am.

[6] http://indianexpress.com/article/blogs/the-deafening-silence-of-child-abuse-2980397/

Why in God’s own country, the god-men have been raping? Is rapig is just drinking tea, as claimed by E. K. Nayanar? Will more penis would be cut in Kerala?

May 22, 2017

 

Why in God’s own country, the god-men have been raping? Is rapig is just drinking tea, as claimed by E. K. Nayanar? Will more penis would be cut in Kerala?

Rape in Kerala- a woman is raped in every 6 hours -gods own

“Raping is just like drining tea” – now it has been secularized in Kerala: Kerala, though often claimed as “the God’’s own country”, women are treated badly, as rapes are very common. Ironically, some three decades earlier, former Communisy CM, E. K. Nayanar declared that, “Raping is just like drinking tea”! Whether he told for his party’’s ideology or otherwise, when, the Communisty party again returned to power in Kerala, raping has become a daily affair. The police report gives details as follows[1]: A total of 16,960 cases of crime against women and children, including 2,568 rapes, have been reported in the last one year in Kerala. According to the state police’s provisional crime statistics, of the total rape cases, women were victims in 1,644 incidents while children in 924 reported cases across the state in 2016, compared to 1,263 and 720 in 2015 respectively. Of the total crimes against women and children, 14,061 were against women and 2,899 against children, it said. The number of cases registered under Protection of Children from Sexual Offenses Act (POCSO) during the period was 2,093, it said. Besides rape, other crimes against women, including molestation, kidnapping, dowry death and cruelty by husbands/relatives, also showed an upward trend last year , 2016[2]. After Abhaya rape-murder, Ice-cream parlour sex, actress rape, pedophiles, Catholic and Mohammedan sex etc., now a “Swami-sex” has been reported!

Rape in Kerala- a woman is raped in every 6 hours

A Kerala godman was raping a girl for eight years: A 23-year-old woman gashed the genitals of a self-proclaimed the accused Sreehari alias Ganeshananda Theerthapada Swami, a 54-year-old ‘swami’, godman when he tried to sexually assault her on Friday (19-05-1017). Initially, police planned to charge the woman, a final year law student, under sections of self-defence, but dropped the idea when women’s bodies raised their voice, saying this will put more pressure on the victim[3]. The TV channels started debate already mostly praising the girl[4]. Thus, Kerala police decided to drop charges against the, as support poured in from various quarters for the victim[5]. The victims’ parents were followers of the Swami who belongs to an ashram in Padmana in Kollam, Kerala. A case has been filed registered against the swami under IPC section 376 (rape) and under sections of Protection of Children from Sexual Offences Act (POCSO)[6]. “Case had been filed under POCSO as the assault and rape seem to have started when she was a minor,” police were quoted as saying. Strangely, the girl’s act is eerily similar to a Malayalam movie sequence called ‘”22 Female Kottayam”, where the heroine apparently castrates the hero for betraying her. Legal experts started discussing as to whether the girl also could be punished under law or not, as she has committed a crime, but, to protect her modesty[7]. However, why she did not go to police earlier, but, had chosen only now, after punishing him[8].

Hari with BJP president, Kerala

Tea shop owner turned Swami to rape the girl: The “Tea-syndrome” has been affecting the psyche of Kerala, as, here also, the alleged rapist was a te-shop owner! The police said the accused used to run a tea shop near Ernakulam before he took up spirituality. He came into contact with the family a few years ago, promising to cure the girl’s bedridden father and he ​used to visit the woman’s house to conduct pujas for him[9]. “Whenever he visited Thiruvananthapuram, he used to stay with the family. He has also travelled with the family to relatives’ houses in Kottayam and Ernakulam. He started abusing the girl sexually from the time she was in Class 10. She did not resist it for many years. It was when she started studying law that she started resisting his advances, which led him to use coercive methods against her,” the police said. According to the woman, her mother was well aware of the Swami’s acts and he had repeatedly assaulted her at home[10]. That means how this was allowed, accepted and tolerated is not known. Aware of his arrival on Friday night, the victim is said to have kept a knife ready to chop off his genitals, thus, the reports went on!.

Hindu Aikya Vedi leaders led by the accused Ganeshananda Theerthapada Swami meeting the then CM V.S.achuthanandan

“The Hindu” has been so happy to provide “Swami’’s” connection with “Hinduism”: “The Hindu” has been evidently proactive in giving “Hindu-side” of the Swami. It reported[11], “The accused has been associated with the Hindu Aikya Vedi, being part of a team of spiritual and political leaders who submitted a memorandum to the then Chief Minister in 2010, demanding the withdrawal of a government order to take over the administration of ashrams, maths, and temples in northern Kerala”. The Panmana Ashram has distanced itself from the accused, saying he was no longer part of it[12].  Meanwhile, the Panmana Ashram, which was founded by social reformer Chattambi Swamikal, said in a statement[13], “The Swamy had left the ashram 15 years ago after completing his studies.” Thus, why “The Hindu” has been so active in giving details about the Swami. In Kerala, there have been so many sexual exploitation by the Christian and Mohammedan clerics, Bishops, pastors and so on, but, it never carried on to give details of them. Many times, it has chosen to mention the accused / alleged person’s name to know his religion!

Ganeshananda Theerthapada Swami- in hospital-spicy news

“The Hindu” continued – BJP State president was in an awkward position, trying to defend himself: BJP State president Kummanam Rajasekharan was in an awkward position, trying to defend himself against being seen as the godman’s ally, as one photo appeared in which he was with the alleged “rape-swami”. Briefing the media, Mr. Rajasekharan said while he had known the sanyasi, the latter had no connection with the BJP or the NDA. “He used to attend the meetings of sanyasis . He was part of the group that accompanied me to visit V.S. Achuthanandan when he was Chief Minister. There should be a thorough investigation into the incident and strong action should be taken against the guilty. The police should bring out all facts pertaining to this,” he said. On the godman’s participation in several agitations, including the Aranmula protest, Mr. Rajasekharan said: “Many sanyasis took part in it.” So, what “The Hindu” has achieved has to be analyzed. The social media would be gleefully spend time with these details attacking Hindus, Hindu belief-system, rituals and other issues. As the media had been dead against “Nityananda”, such propaganda might be unleased.

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22-05-2017

Ganeshananda Theerthapada Swami- in hospital-spicy news-X

[1] Hindusthan Times, Rise in rape cases in Kerala, over 2500 reported in 2016, PTI, Thiruvanathapuram, Updated: Feb.26, 2017 15:31 IST

[2] http://www.hindustantimes.com/india-news/rise-in-rape-cases-in-kerala-over-2500-reported-in-2016/story-XbsUMZ0lVxymnmqgJQrRfK.html

[3] http://www.hindustantimes.com/india-news/kerala-police-to-drop-charges-against-woman-who-cut-godman-s-genitals-as-support-pours-in/story-8XWo1EnxuPm1PmDku0AMaK.html

[4]  Rahul Easwar was arguing pathetically this time, supporting the girl, but, asserting that she must have gone to the police first. Any way, majority opinion has been that the girl’s cutting of penis is a great act.

[5] Hindusthan Times, Woman who cut off man’s genitals in Kerala gets support, police to drop charges, Ramesh Babu, Thiruvanathapuram, Updated: May 21, 2017 23:09 IST

[6] http://www.deccanchronicle.com/nation/crime/200517/kerala-woman-cuts-off-godmans-genitals-who-raped-her-for-several-yrs.html

[7] thequint.com, Kerala Woman Severs ‘Rapist’ Swami’s Penis: Can Law Protect Her , Rosheena Zehra, 21-05-2017,  11:34 am

[8] https://www.thequint.com/women/2017/05/20/kerala-swami-castrated-will-law-protect-her

[9] DNA, Kerala: Woman chops off Swami’s genitals, alleges she was being raped for years; CM calls it courageous step, Sat, 20 May 2017-11:05 am , DNA webdesk

[10] Deccan Chronicle, Kerala: Woman cuts off genitals of ‘godman’ who raped her for several yrs, Published May 20, 2017, 11:56 am IST; Updated May 20, 2017, 1:10 pm IST.

[11] The Hindu, Kerala woman cuts godman’s genitals, ends eight-year ordeal, Thiruvananthapuram, May 21, 2017 00:00 IST; Updated: May 21, 2017 04:14 IST.

[12] http://www.thehindu.com/todays-paper/tp-national/tp-andhrapradesh/kerala-girl-cuts-godmans-genitals-ends-eight-year-ordeal/article18517720.ece

[13] http://www.dnaindia.com/india/report-kerala-woman-chops-off-swami-s-genitals-alleges-she-was-being-raped-for-years-2445130

Online sexual grooming, luring girls with modus operandi, cyber sexual crimes: Should be taken serious and monitored!

May 18, 2017

Online sexual grooming, luring girls with modus operandi, cyber sexual crimes: Should be taken serious and monitored!

Internet grooming

Ibrahim posing as “Siva” developed Fracebook friendship with a 13-year school girl: Accepting what seemed like an innocuous Facebook friend request ended up in a nightmare for a a 13-year-old girl from Tirupur, as the friendly stranger turned out to be a sexual predator, facebook friend for just few months, who ensnared the young teen and raped her. A 22-year-old man and a lodge manager were arrested on 01-05-2017 Monday on charges of raping a 13-year-old 8th standard schoolgirl. The man, who befriended the girl from Tirupur on Facebook, took her to Puducherry, raped her and abandoned her in a lodge. Later, the lodge manager also raped her. The arrested persons were identified as S Ibrahim, 22, of Pichampalayampudur in Tirupur and E Prabhakaran, 29, of Puducherry[1]. Police said Ibrahim was working in a textile unit in Tirupur and Prabhakaran had taken a lodge on lease more than six months ago[2].

Internet sexual grooming

The girl eloped with Ibrahim as he talked so sweetly: Lured by the 21-year-old youth’s sweet-talk, the teenager ran away with him to Chennai and then to Puducherry, where she was sexually abused for two days[3]. It is ridiculous that that the 13-year girl could be so bold enough to elope with a stranger from Tirupr to Chennai to Puducherry and accepted to stay in lodge. The girl’s harrowing tale came to light on April 29, 2017 when she reached Tirupur two days after she went missing and narrated her ordeal to her parents[4]. On April 27, the girl’s parents lodged a complaint with the Tirupur North police claiming their 13-year-old daughter had gone missing. But, what the parents were doing about her activities with phone, facebook friendship, strange behaviour and other activities. They must have watched her. Even as the sleuths were trying to trace her whereabouts, she returned on her own two days later. What the girl had to tell about the two days away from home swung the city police into action, leading to the arrest of a 21-year-old youth from Chennai and a 27-year-old man from Puducherry. Police said the girl became friends with Siva (21) on Facebook recently. Over time, Siva talked her into eloping with him and on April 27, he reached Tirupur. The girl gave her family members the slip and eloped with Siva to Chennai. After a brief stay there, Siva took her to a lodge in neighbouring Puducherry, where he allegedly raped her for two days. Ironically, though TOI mentions his name as Ibrahim, Indian Express does not, perhaps on the principles of “Secular journalism”!

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The lover sold her gold chain and vanished: Later, Siva sold her gold chain weighing one sovereign, gave her the return fare to Tirupur and vanished. Really, it is interesting and intriguing to note as to how the girl could giv her chain also to the crook after all these happenings. Ibrahm should be interrogated thoroughly and his modus operandi should be ex;posed, so that the girls could be safe. Finding the girl all alone, lodge owner Prabakaran (27) befriended the girl under the guise of helping her reach Tirupur. After realising what had happened, Prabakaran too allegedly sexually abused her[5]. The girl managed to escape from the lodge and reach Tirupur with the money Siva had left her. After hearing her tale, a team of sleuths traced Siva to Chennai and arrested him on 01-05-2017 (Monday) on charges of kidnapping and raping a minor girl[6]. Another team nabbed Prabakaran from his lodge in Puducherry. Both the accused have been booked under various sections of the Indian Penal Code and the Protection of Children from Sexual Offences Act (POCSO). After all these happenings, the media started disciurse on “online sexual grooming” and so on!

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Online sexual grooming – definition and so on![7]: Child grooming is generally understood as the practice of befriending and forming an emotional bond with a child by a person with the objective of sexual abuse. According to the Oxford English Dictionary, the word ‘grooming’ was first used in connection with a paedophile in a 1985 story by Chicago Tribune which stated, “These ‘friendly molesters’ become acquainted with their targeted victim, gaining their trust while secretly grooming the child as a sexual partner.” Child grooming incidents have increased with the advent of the internet, where such incidents are increasingly taking place online, through public chatrooms and social media. In India too, such instances have been reported in the past[8].

  1. Last year, two teenagers were arrested in Kolkata for kidnapping and rape of a 15-year-old girl whom they had befriended on Facebook.
  2. Another instance of online grooming was reported in December 2016 where a teenage girl was raped by a Facebook friend in Mumbai.
  3. More recently, in January 2017, a minor girl in Cuttack alleged rape by a boy whom she had met through a social networking site.

With the proliferation of smartphone users in India, child grooming incidents can only be expected to rise in future.

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Tulir’s discourse on Online sexual grooming[9]: As usual after some days, the analysis comes  in this way: “This is a classic case of sexual grooming,” says Vidya Reddy, of Tulir, Centre for Prevention and Healing of Child Sexual Abuse. “Abusers study a situation carefully to understand what a child’s Achilles heel is and then exploit the situation. Now, with almost every child having accesses to technology and internet in the form of a laptop or phone, these criminals have found new platforms to target children,” she adds. What Vidya explains is called online sexual grooming, a worldwide phenomenon, that has spread along with the speed and easy access to the internet. According to UNICEF, it can be defined as preparing a child or adult for sexual abuse, exploitation or ideological manipulation. A report released by the organisation in 2014 states that the surge in mobile and internet usage in India had brought 400 million people online. Of this, seven percent of internet users in the country are reportedly children. “Phones are now an extension of our hands and it has completely changed the way crime is committed and presented,” Vidya notes. Even a report of the Parliamentary Committee on Information Technology in 2014 recognized the threat posed to children by predatory paedophiles online. It emphasises how these predators “conceal their true identity whilst using the internet to ‘groom’ potential victims for sexual purposes.”

From home to horror[10]: The girl, Meena [name changed] too was unaware about the identity of the person she was chatting with. In fact, an officer told The News Minute, that it was only when Ibrahim called her on the phone that she even realised she had compromised all her data to an unknown man. But Ibrahim, as the police put it, was too smart for the girl. “He spoke to her very nicely and formed an emotional connect before she even realised the dangers of the situation,” a police officer told The News Minute. “He was just somebody who did odd jobs for a living but his real life was on Facebook. He has close to 5000 friends and they are all young girls,” she admits.

What parents and others should do?: As the issue has bee n so simple and as well as complicated in modern times, the following are suggested,  though, the modern ones might object on the grounds of “moral-policing” and so on:

  1. In schoools, moral education classes should be introduced naking them understand, realize and appreciate the moral values of family, parents, relations, respect to elders and connected issues.
  2. Of course, parents and elders should set example to their children, boys and girls and others.
  3. The studying teenage boys and girls should concentrate in studies and not in love, love-making, sex related topics.
  4. The cinema, TV, print and electronic media and connected persons should have some sort of “Social respinsibility” in their presentation of ads, news, serials etc.
  5. They should avoid negative suggestion, instread, present wth positive asppects giving good examples.
  6. Definitely, parents should watch the activities of their children, boys and girls carefully.
  7. Their extra-cautious activities should be monitored with the time-spending, money-requirement and spening, goingout on various pretexts etc.
  8. That teens from slums could kidnap and enjoy life with rich girls, autowalas, coolies and others also could join sucg fray to get girls just by wearing jeans, riding a bike, and such other iditic myths should not be promoted.
  9. The cine songs, depiction etc, should have some decency and decorum, instead of portraying the dancing actresses as whores, or they would go with anybody and indulge in sex immediately.
  10. The law enforcing auhtorities can monitor all these activities.

© Vedaprakash

18-05-2017

[1] Times of India, Girl raped by Facebook ‘friend’, lodge manager in Puducherry, TNN | Updated: May 3, 2017, 06.50 AM IST

[2] http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/coimbatore/girl-raped-by-facebook-friend-lodge-manager-in-puducherry/articleshow/58487399.cms

[3] Onmanorama, Minor girl elopes with FB friend, only to be abused by him, Wednesday 03 May 2017 08:54 PM IST, byOur Correspondent.

http://english.manoramaonline.com/news/nation/2017/05/03/chennai-girl-elopes-with-fb-friend-abused.html

[4] http://english.manoramaonline.com/news/nation/2017/05/03/chennai-girl-elopes-with-fb-friend-abused.html

[5] Indian Express, Facebook friend rapes 13-year-old after luring her from Tirupur to Chennai,

By Vignesh A, Express News Service, Published: 02nd May 2017 09:58 PM, Last Updated: 02nd May 2017 09:58 PM.

[6] http://www.newindianexpress.com/states/tamil-nadu/2017/may/02/facebook-friend-rapes-13-year-old-after-luring-her-from-tirupur-to-chennai-1600249.html

[7] Firstpost, Child grooming: India must take measures to protect children from online sexual abuses, Devika Agarwal, May, 11 2017 21:59:53 IST

[8] http://www.firstpost.com/india/child-grooming-india-must-take-measures-to-protect-children-from-online-sexual-abuse-3438528.html

[9] TheNewsMinute, A 13-year-old’s rape in TN highlights the major threat online sexual groomih poses to children, Priyanka Thirumurthy, Saturday, May 06, 2017 – 11:45

[10] http://www.thenewsminute.com/article/13-year-old-s-rape-tn-highlights-major-threat-online-sexual-grooming-poses-children-61591